Pocket Money and House Work – To pay or not to pay?

Do you climb Mt Laundry as often as I do? This is my Rosella sitting on top of Mt Laundry. It was a big climb up to the top and it was heaps of fun, before it exploded in a lava flow of clean clothes. Mt Laundry has an uncanny ability to erupt and re-build itself several times a week in this house hold. With two families living here, and six children, one of whom is in cloth nappies, the washing machine goes two, often three times a day. Our verandah is very rarely seen without a colourful display of clothing pegged to the wire fence.

I don’t mind folding laundry, but I do mind how often it needs to be folded, and some days I feel like I will never reach the peak of Mt Laundry at all. The children are well able to sort out their own clothes and at seven years and almost-four years of age they can do a fair job of folding their own clothes and putting them away, and jobs like this have by  necessity become a daily event.

Money for ‘treats’ is the thing for the oldest children in our house at the moment, but I am in a dilemma about whether to pay pocket-money for household jobs or not. My feeling is not to pay for things like doing the laundry, cleaning bedrooms, sweeping etc.

My kids have their daily and their weekly jobs: before breakfast they make their beds and tidy the floor of their room. They tidy the playroom before dinner, and sort out their clothes at the end of the day. On the weekend they help to tidy the house by cleaning their bathroom, vacuuming their carpet and tidying the verandah.

My feeling is that these tasks should be shared because they are a part of caring for our home, and as we all live here then we should all participate in the caring, and this should not be rewarded with money. Besides, I don’t get paid for house keeping, so how can I out-source this?! I really don’t want participation in household jobs to be reliant on how much the job is worth.

But I am prepared to pay for jobs that are not daily or weekly things. My son has earned his treat money for his school market day by dusting and vacuuming the inside of our car. He worked so hard and so diligently, and is so proud of his job. I’ve also got school holiday boredom sorted by offering to pay children to roll felt balls and felt strings for me. I can use the felt  for my craft and my felting business, and the work is wet, soapy and perfect for hands that need to be kept busy.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on the matter, and how you manage pocket-money with your children at home.